How to Find People to Play Tennis With
The fastest way to find people to play tennis with is to put yourself where other players are already looking: a tennis partner app, a local league or ladder, and the busiest public courts near you. Know your level before you reach out and agree on what kind of session you want, and one good hit can turn into a regular partner.
Here's how to do each one, plus how to make the first hit go well so it turns into a second.
1. Know your level before you look
Most frustrating first hits come from a level mismatch. In the US, players describe their level with an NTRP rating. The official scale goes up to 7.0, but 6.0 and above is for nationally ranked and professional players. Nearly every recreational player is somewhere between 2.0 and 5.0, and that's the range PlayTennis uses. You don't need an official rating, just an honest estimate:
- 2.0: You're new to tennis or coming back after years away. You can get the ball over the net, but rallies are short and you're still learning the basic strokes.
- 2.5: You can rally slowly with a partner of similar level but still miss often.
- 3.0: You can sustain medium-paced rallies and serve in most of the time.
- 3.5: You have more consistency and some control of direction and depth, and you're starting to play points and sets.
- 4.0: You have dependable strokes on both sides, can place the ball, and play competitive matches.
- 4.5: You use power and spin on purpose, serve with pace, and adjust tactics during a match.
- 5.0: You have a reliable weapon, vary spin and pace well, and have likely played tournaments, high school varsity, or college tennis.
When in doubt, rate yourself half a level lower. It's easier to move up than to apologize for a lopsided hit.
2. Use a tennis partner app
Apps solve the hardest part: finding someone who is near you, at your level, and free at the same time. On PlayTennis, you create a free profile with your skill level, neighborhood, and availability, then browse players near you and message them directly. PlayTennis also recommends partners based on your level, location, and how active they are, and you can post a time and court you want to play so others can join.
Tips for getting replies:
- Add a photo and an honest level so people can quickly tell whether you're a good match.
- Be specific: "Free Tuesday after 6pm, happy to rally then play a set at Griffith Park" beats "want to hit sometime?"
- Message three or four people at once. Not everyone is free this week.
- Reply quickly. Players usually line up a game with whoever answers first.
That last tip is the main reason to get the PlayTennis app for iPhone or Android. It sends a push notification as soon as another player messages you, so you don't miss a game because a message sat unread in a browser tab.
3. Join a league or ladder
A league gives you a built-in list of people at your level who have already said they want to play. There are two main types:
- Team leagues (like USTA): you join a team at your rating and play scheduled matches against other teams. Great if you like a fixed weekly slot and a team captain organizing things.
- Flex leagues and ladders: you join at your level, challenge anyone in the league, and pick a time and court that work for both of you. Better if your schedule changes week to week.
PlayTennis runs adult flex tennis leagues, grouped by skill level, in these cities:
- Tennis leagues in Los Angeles
- Tennis leagues in New York
- Tennis leagues in San Francisco
- Tennis leagues in Chicago
- Tennis leagues in Houston
- Tennis leagues in Greenville
Leagues run in the PlayTennis mobile app. You join a season, send and accept challenges, and schedule your matches from your phone, so download the app for iPhone or Android before you sign up.
Even if you don't care about rankings, a league is one of the best ways to meet people to play with. League opponents you click with often become regular hitting partners.
4. Show up at busy public courts
Public courts are full of people looking for a game, especially on weekday evenings and weekend mornings. To make it easy to join in:
- Pick the busiest courts near you. Look for parks with several courts and lights. The PlayTennis court directory lists courts by city.
- Bring a fresh can of balls. It's the easiest way to be a welcome fourth for doubles.
- Ask players who are waiting or just finishing, not in the middle of a point.
- Check for a sign-up board, paddle system, or regular group time. Many parks have informal "open play" hours where anyone can rotate in.
5. Take a clinic or group lesson
Clinics put you on court with four to eight players at roughly your level, every week. Parks and recreation departments, public tennis centers, and clubs run them for adults at every level. You'll improve, and you'll meet people who are already committed to playing regularly. Ask the coach who else is looking for practice partners. They usually know. You can also find a tennis coach near you on PlayTennis.
6. Join local tennis groups
Meetup groups, Facebook groups, and city subreddits often have tennis threads where people post "looking for a hitting partner" messages. They work best in big cities. Search for something like "Chicago tennis partners" or "Brooklyn tennis," then post your level, neighborhood, and when you're free. Expect slower replies than an app, and be clear about level so you don't end up in a mismatch.
7. Ask the people you already know
Coworkers, neighbors, and friends of friends are an underrated source. Post in your work chat, neighborhood app, or building group. Lots of people played in high school or college and are just waiting for someone to ask.
8. Make the first hit go well
A little planning turns a one-time hit into a regular partner:
- Agree on the format: rally only, drills, practice sets, or a full match.
- Agree on logistics: who books the court, who brings balls, and how long you'll play.
- Be honest about level: mention if you're coming back from a break or still working on your serve.
- Follow up: if you had fun, suggest the next time before you leave the court.
Find people to play tennis with in your city
PlayTennis has local communities in these cities:
- Find tennis partners in Los Angeles
- Find tennis partners in New York
- Find tennis partners in San Francisco
- Find tennis partners in Chicago
- Find tennis partners in Seattle
- Find tennis partners in Houston
- Find tennis partners in Atlanta
- Find tennis partners in Dallas
- Find tennis partners in Miami
- Find tennis partners in San Diego
- Find tennis partners in Boston
- Find tennis partners in Austin
- Find tennis partners in Washington, DC
- Find tennis partners in Denver
- Find tennis partners in Orange County
- Find tennis partners in Phoenix
- Find tennis partners in Philadelphia
Frequently asked questions
What is the best app to find tennis partners?
Look for an app that is built for finding partners nearby, shows each player's level, and lets you message directly. PlayTennis does all three, is free to join, and is available for iPhone or Android. For a side-by-side look at the options, see PlayTennis vs. TennisPAL.
How do I find a tennis partner at my level?
Estimate your NTRP level honestly, then use tools that group players by level: partner apps with skill filters, leagues organized by rating, and clinics split by level.
Is it weird to ask strangers at the courts to play?
Not at all. Asking someone to hit is normal at public courts. Wait for a break in play, mention your level, and offer to bring balls. The worst answer is "not today."
How do I find people to play tennis with as a beginner?
Beginner clinics are the best starting point because everyone is at the same stage. Partner apps also work well. Set your level to 2.0 or 2.5 and look for other beginners who want to rally rather than play matches.
Ready to play?
Download PlayTennis for iPhone or Android, set your level and availability, and see who's ready to play near you this week. You'll get a notification the moment someone wants to hit.
Ready to find your next tennis partner?
Join PlayTennisLA today and connect with players at your skill level near your favorite courts.






